Being able to express your preference when presented with options is important for anyone who is learning a new language. In English, we use three words to do that: neither, either, both. In this blog post, we will go over each one of them, explain the difference between neither or either in English, and help you understand how to use these terms. Let’s get started!
Pronouncing neither or either in English
Before we get started, let’s take one thing out of the way: the either neither pronunciation difference. Many students question what is the right way to pronounce neither or either in English. Maybe you’ve heard these words being pronounced before and noticed that some people say “eether” and some say “aither”. The same happens to neither: you will hear both “neether” and “naiether”. Now, what’s the right one? The answer is: both!
Yes, you can pronounce these words both ways in English. It’s important to say that this is not a difference between American English and British English. People who were born in the same city can pronounce it differently. So, you can decide which pronunciation you like better. For me, it’s more natural to say “eether” and “neether”, but that doesn’t mean I will never say it the other way. It’s up to you, my friend!
Rules for both in English: referring to two things
Imagine that a friend calls you and asks you if you want to have dinner at your favorite restaurant or go to the movies to watch that film you are dying to see. Seems like a complicated choice, right? So you go ahead and say: Can we do both?
Both in this sentence means that you like the two options that were given and you would like to do both activities instead of choosing just one.
Both and pronouns
You can also use both to refer to two things that were already mentioned in the dialogue. For instance, your roommate asks you “Are your mom and dad coming to the party tomorrow night?” Here are some possible answers you can give to indicate that they are going to the party:
- Yes, my mom and dad are coming.
- Yes, my parents are coming.
- Yes, they both are coming.
- Yes, both of them are coming.
Notice that you have four options. The first is just repeating the words “mom and dad.” You could substitute that word for the plural form, which is “parents” in this case. Better yet, you can use both, which refers to your mom and your dad in this case. Besides that, you can also choose to say “they are both coming” or “both of them are coming”. They both mean the same thing.
The rule for using both is:
|1st person plural||2nd person plural||3rd person plural|
|Subject pronoun + both + verb||We both sing.||You both sing.||They both sing.|
|Both of + object pronoun + verb||Both of us sing.||Both of you sing.||Both of them sing.|
Here are a few more examples of both in English:
- Which one is better: Harvard or Yale?
I guess they are both good schools.
Both of them are great universities.
- Do you want to visit Paris or Barcelona?
I would love to visit both.
I like both cities. Can we visit both?
- Is the Wilson library closer to your dorm? I thought the undergraduate library was closer.
They are both close, actually.
No, both libraries are 5 minutes away.
Either: when both options are good
Now let’s take a look at neither and either rules in English. Sometimes all options that are offered to us look good. In this case, we would use either… or to say that we don’t really have a preference, since both options are ok. For instance:
- I am not sure if I should hire Joanna or Paula.
They both have great backgrounds. Either Joanna or Paula is going to be a great asset to our team. In this case, you could also say: “They both have great backgrounds. Either one of them is going to be a great asset to our team.”
You can also use either in situations like this one below. Let’s have a look at how to use either in a sentence.
- Do you want Coke or Sprite?
Either one is good. I’ll have what you’re having.
Either usually has a positive connotation, since one of the options offered will eventually be chosen. However, we can also use either to agree with a negative statement. When we do that, the sentence must be negative as well. Here are some examples:
- I’m not going to class today.
Yeah, I won’t go either.
- I am not feeling very well today.
I’m not feeling great either.
- I am not hungry.
Yeah, I’m not hungry either. Let’s just grab a coffee.
Neither in English: when none of the options is good
Now you know more about either grammar in English. And what about neither? Keep reading to know when to use neither or either. Neither means not + either. We will use neither to disagree with both options given to us. For instance, let’s imagine that you are vegetarian. If someone asks you “Do you prefer chicken or fish?”, you will say “Neither. I’m vegetarian.”
Neither + noun + nor + noun + verb
Another common use of this word is with the word nor. In this form, these words actually create a conjunction in English. Neither…nor means that two options are not good for us. Check out the meaning of neither with this example:
- Are Julia and James coming to the movies?
Neither Julia nor James are going. They have lots of homework to finish.
We also use neither to agree with a negative sentence. In this case, the sentence must not contain a negative word. Let’s look at the examples we work with above when giving examples with either:
- I’m not going to class today.
Option using “either”: Yeah, I’m not going either. (We must use a negative word, I’m not in this case)
Option 1 using “neither”: Yeah, me neither.
Option 2 using “neither”: Neither am I.
We have two options. The first one, “me neither”, is informal. It can’t be used with any other subject besides “me”, though. The other option needs to follow this structure:
Neither + auxiliary verb + subject
The most common use of neither in English is actually to agree with someone in a negative context. The structure is a little bit different though, so look at some examples.
- She doesn’t like cheese.
Neither do I.
Neither does my mom.
- I can’t drive.
Neither can I.
- He is not working today.
Neither is Adam.
- My friends won’t go to the party.
Neither will I. (= I will also not)
Neither will Julie. (= Julie will also not)
Neither will my parents. (=They will also not)
The rule to use neither to agree is that you repeat the auxiliary verb from the original statement. The first word is always neither, then you say the auxiliary verb in the positive form (do, does, is, are, can, will, did, etc.), and the last word is the subject.
Let’s practice using neither, either, both with this exercise below. Good luck!
Exercise – Drag the words
We hope this blog post helps you understand when to use neither or either in English, as well as the rules for both. Even native speakers get confused sometimes, so don’t worry! Happy studying!